10th june 2020
Podcast #19 Not or Enough: How Shifting Your Beliefs Can Transform Your Life & Business Forever.
+ Free Block & Energy Clearing Session & “I'm Enough” Sheets.
Welcome to the 19th podcast, the episode in which you will discover whether or not you have a block on your 'Not or Well Enough' belief. You discover the reason and meaning behind this and the disastrous or phenomenal effect it has on your life.
Imagine: you keep turning in vicious circles and repeatedly getting stuck on the same thing, both privately and professionally.
My Advice: use Powerful Tools for Phenomenal Transformation In Your Life & Business
Remember: everything is available to you. Only deeply anchored, subconscious blocks can hold you back. In this podcast I will give you tools which will help you to break through barriers and transform your life, both privately and professionally for good.
At the end of this podcast you will have discovered how you can become fully empowered and create your ideal life & business.
+ Free Block & Energy Clearing Session & I'm Enough Sheets, I'll tell you more about that in a minute.
As you may know, I am an intuitive transformation therapist, medium & energy healer.
A few years ago, in addition to my intuitive and mediumistic development, I came into contact with a special form of hypnotherapy. This was not the standard kind, no, but a powerful, fast form of hypnosis for ultimate transformation. You understand, my interest was quickly piqued.
It came my way, as it were, by accident. Now you know if you are a regular listener: I do not believe in coincidence, rather I believe in synchronicity. So really my discovery of this meant it was the right time for me, not merely a coincidental discovery. This is also true for you, listening to my podcast at this moment. It is no coincidence that you are here.
But also this discovery really did come exactly when I needed it.
I have worked in England in the largest and most prestigious places where you can work in the media field. One specific place was at the top of my 'wish list'. My wish was to be allowed to work there once, on that stage, and this was realised and manifested as I have actually spoken there twice. A dream come true, my dream wish had come true and at that moment I was really in Heaven; it was so special to be able to work there in England.
Yet still, after working there and after other events, I found out that I was not satisfied with myself. Not satisfied with the contacts I made for the guests in the room. Not even in England.
In fact, this feeling got in my way so much that I started blocking myself. A big block with a feeling that said I was not good enough.
Even though I had worked in England at the highest possible level, on a world level, the doubts still came. When I think back, I sabotaged myself more often in my life when really I could have broken through.
This had happened before when I was working as a make-up artist, including at the renowned House Of Orange, in Amsterdam. Whilst there I was given great responsibility, I was even allowed to assist the Dutch #1 make-up artist (who was also my teacher): John Kattenberg; during photoshoots of bn-ers, at backstage shows, help John with teaching new students.
An international career as a make-up artist beckoned ... and yet the moment I had to press on, where I could take that big step (something I wanted so badly), I sabotaged myself again.
I had this self-sabotage streak even when I was myself a fashion model from the age of 17. I walked fashion shows and made a lot of money from it as a teenager, yet this doubt was a huge issue. Probably not helped by being in an environment of intense scrutiny over whether you were good enough, slim enough, beautiful enough; it had a huge impact on me.
Yet here I was, disappointed that this happened to me for the umpteenth time. When there came, just like that, a special technique, a special form of hypnotherapy. Unlike the usual form, something that had also helped many world stars, top athletes and big CEOs.
I dived in because I was so, so over it! Something had to be done, something had to change. I had to get to the core of my issues. I felt that there was a part at my core that was sabotaging me, that wanted to keep me small and that wanted to keep me seemingly safe.
And as I have said before, your mind willpower is strong, but emotions coupled with subconscious experiences and memories always outweigh willpower.
Which is why for the umpteenth time, I let the emotions of insecurity, doubt, and feelings of not being good enough take over, run, and direct my life.
Whether I wanted to or not, I fell prey.
Then I started applying the hypnotherapy tools & recordings right from my home, from my safe environment. I began listening to special recordings and sessions that showed me the core of my issues, before removing them from the root. Thus allowing me to start upgrading my mind & system with information that I wanted to feel, experience and receive.
I was amazed at the scenes from my childhood, which came out like a mini-movie with feelings, as if I were that little girl again. Nothing scary or unpleasant, because when you go back into your subconscious it is like watching some kind of mini-movie from a distance. I also knew beforehand that it’s not possible to relive scenes. After all, you have already experienced it, so you look at it with the intention of gaining insight into what beliefs you linked to it as a small child.
This led me to do a session to find out why I felt that I was not enough, or not good enough to perform at a world level.
I’ll give an example to show how the system works: lying completely relaxed on my bed at home I was taken back to a particular memory. I was listening to a recording on my headphones that brought me into a state of deep relaxation. A relaxation where my thinking mind went to sleep for a while (they call this the Alpha state of your mind), and my subconscious mind, that part that is always on, was fully alert and sharp.
You are brought to a state of deep relaxation and super alertness at the same time. But the amazing thing about this state is that the thinking, critical mind, which wants to interfere with everything, is quiet, at peace for a while. So you are therefore completely open to suggestions and you can easily follow the directions.
The best part is, this allows you to get to the scenes, the moments, the situations, the circumstances that are the core root of your problems. Those problems that you deal with to this day without thinking about consciously.
So there I went, following the voice on the recording without thinking, and I ended up at a moment from my childhood, out of the blue.
In the scene I arrived at I was four years old, (I just felt this was my age), and I was in kindergarten in Park Leeuwenbergh, where I grew up. I saw my kindergarten teacher and she was talking to my mother. I could just hear the conversation the way I heard it when I was 4 years old. I overheard the teacher talking to my mum about how shy I was.
The tone and feeling I picked up whilst there as a 4-year-old, was a belief that after hearing the conversation, I will never be okay again. I also hear my mother say something, like she doesn't know what to do with it.
Then they look at my sister (who is older by 15-months) and is hopping around the schoolyard and say: “Yes, she will be fine, she is so different from Lisette”.
The feeling I was left with was: ‘I am not good enough and will never be good enough’. But my sister was, the scene moved on in my memory and I heard the teacher and my mother laugh and it felt for me as a 4-year-old, like laughing at me. I felt the emotions very strongly, they are stored in the memory of that moment.
While I watch and experience this scene from a distance, like a mini-movie moment from my life, the penny drops.
I watch the scene, look through and around the scene as a detective in my own life and suddenly understand: “Wow, when your teacher and mother say that at the age of 4, you believe it”! I had taken what I had heard to be the truth. This meant the conviction arose: ‘I am not good enough and will never be good enough’.
Then, after understanding where my negative belief originated, I immediately transformed it. Using a special recording for 21 days I started to overwrite this with the recording called: ‘I am enough, I am worth it’!
Obviously I worked through more scenes but where the core lay is in knowing that I am worth it, that I am enough and that I have always been enough!
Through a special hypnotherapy regression session and then the Upgrade and Transform session I was able to transform my limiting beliefs forever.
The effect is gigantic and still continues to this day and is visible in everything I do and who I am. This is because from an energetic point of view, knowing you are worthy is so essential! That’s because, like attracts like, so if you have the feeling (subconsciously) that you are not worth it, you also attract similar situations and circumstances.
My advice from my own personal experience: if you don't like something in your life then find, internally, in your subconscious, where the core lies. For this is where the Shift can take place and this can transform your life forever.
So do you want to thrive in both your private and business life and live your ultimate blueprint? Go back to your subconscious memories, see what beliefs you usually linked to as a young child, and once you understand it, you can transform it.
For if your mind doesn’t understand then you cannot transform.
If this feels good and if you think: ‘I am ready for this’, I recommend that you take action. Or actually, if you think: ‘I'm done, I'm tired of ending up in the same pattern every time’. Do you have that feeling? Enough is enough?! Then I want to congratulate you, because this is the most important point in your life.
You have to have had enough and be done with leaving it behind for good. If you feel deep down that you are here for a reason, that you have a purpose in this life, that you have a mission. That you have something to offer the world from your private circumstances or perhaps from your own business, your own company, then this is the solution for you.
Believe me it works!
Among other things, these podcasts emerged from transforming everything that held me back. Everything that kept me small. Now my podcast can be heard all over the world, if you understand Dutch - but you get my point.
Do you dare to make your voice heard, do you dare to share your talents with the world?
Or do you play it safe, keep yourself small? Perhaps as small as your father, mother or grandfather or grandmother wanted to see you, right?
Is that you? Or is that someone else's pattern and belief?
Just think about that?
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